Allow the Tortoise to Teach the Hare

As a homeschool parent, we occasionally run into snags in our faith and beliefs in educating our children. We’re often bombarded with accusations that we aren’t doing enough, aren’t intelligent enough to teach our kids, and we’re given reminders of how much kids in the public schools are doing. We’re faced with intimidation and pride, often scolded. Our opposition seeks to shame us and our children in their fast paced educational system by comparing credits, units, and hours of instruction. We lay awake at night wondering if we’re really doing the right things for our children and we anguish in prayer over whether our kids will turn out to be able to keep up with the world when they become adults.

This fast paced western world emphasizes competition with test scores and comparison charts, yet they forget what our ancestors taught. The very ancestors that built the foundation for education. Our modern concrete and plastic world has long forgotten the intricate fibers, textures, and vibrant colors that shaped the education of ancient worlds.

While we should favor moving forward in this struggling economic and educational society, we must not forget the depth of the truths that brought humanity to where we are today. There is a sacredness in the expansive cosmos of knowledge that is shamefully rejected and is facing an ongoing battle to survive.

This most holy treasure must be preserved and honored. We must not lay down our heritage in obeisance to the neglectful and imperious tormentors of this world. There is no possible way to measure the worth of such a key ingredient to educating the children of tomorrow. You can’t race to the finish line to achieve it, for within this nucleus of hidden treasure is the fact that there is no finish line. It is small yet profoundly large to the point of not being able to contain it all nor capture it for greedy gain.

In all the rush and pressure to obtain it, they miss it entirely.

Born in the late Eighteenth century, a poetic literary artist named C.S. Lewis said,

“the greatest service we can do to education today is to teach fewer subjects. No one has time to do more than a very few things well before he is twenty, and when we force a boy to be a mediocrity in a dozen subjects, we destroy his standards, perhaps for life.” in ‘Surprised by Joy’, a story of how his early childhood was shaped.

C. S Lewis was born to his Irish parents and lived in England during his adolescence. We are often enamored by the retelling of poetic tales from ancient men and women who lived in times of intense depth of soul. A time when stories were told to teach lessons of wisdom, love, and war. C.S. Lewis wrote fantasy tales artistically created in the far away land of his imagination through imagery of animal life. His stories not only entertain us, but when we read between the lines we learn valuable lessons that are eternally applicable to life no matter what century we live in.

We can travel further back in time to ancient Greece where we meet another fable visionary named, Aesop. His literal existence has long been suspected to be untrue, yet Aristotle and Herodotus wrote about him. Regardless of whether or not Aesop actually existed, his tales teach truth through short stories of human-like animal dilemmas. We don’t need to argue over whether or not a fox actually spoke English or if a tortoise really wants to learn to fly. The literal translations of the fables are not the point to begin with. Don’t miss the moral of the stories by trying to win an argument void of truth.

The ancient telling of fables were often retold verbally and later written down.

In a time of verbal story telling, the storytellers were able to show emotion, facial expression, and tone of voice that could lead their pupils to ponder deeper into the stories.   We are treacherous human beings  to omit this powerful expression of education. To further humiliate our most cherished ancestors, modern adults have closed the door to open discussion and collaborative efforts to improve our humanity. For ages, they have banished true free thought and expression in the communities out of fear of conflicting beliefs. Throughout history we read of world powers seeking to silence “rebellions”, when in truth those “rebels” were the ones fighting to preserve this sacred truth. The treason committed against our kind as been to overpower us with dominating control. People have gained control, but missed the beautiful art of communication and understanding. Oppressing the truth out of fear because the truth is so utterly transforming. I shake my head as I sit in awe of just how much more advanced our human race could be if the truth had not been encumbered for so long.

Aesop wrote a simple, yet profound, story that captures the very essence of this impacting axiom in his tale of the Tortoise and the Hare.

“A HARE one day ridiculed the short feet and slow pace of the Tortoise, who replied, laughing: “Though you be swift as the wind, I will beat you in a race.” The Hare, believing her assertion to be simply impossible, assented to the proposal; and they agreed that the Fox should choose the course and fix the goal. On the day appointed for the race the two started together. The Tortoise never for a moment stopped, but went on with a slow but steady pace straight to the end of the course. The Hare, lying down by the wayside, fell fast asleep. At last waking up, and moving as fast as he could, he saw the Tortoise had reached the goal, and was comfortably dozing after her fatigue. Slow but steady wins the race.” ~ Translated by George Fyler Townsend. Aesop’s Fables (p. 18). Amazon Digital Services, Inc..

As I was scrolling through my Facebook newsfeed this morning, I noticed this elementary aphorism;

“Childhood is not a race to see how quickly a child can read, write, and count. Childhood is a small window of time to learn and develop at the pace that is right for each individual child.”

In the upcoming school year 2014-2015, the States will be implementing a new method of education called, Common Core. On the surface, Common Core appears to be a goal oriented approach to assisting children in attaining a higher benchmark of education. However fancy the words may sound, I have come to see Common Core as the Hare in Aesop’s fable. The aspiration of Common Core is commendable, but the pathway to achievement is perfidious. It’s philosophy is inverted and against the natural grain of human learning. It’s akin to strapping Styrofoam fruit to a tree and calling it nutritious.  The hare is created to be swift to avoid becoming prey, but the tortoise is created to be patient and diligent.

Much like the story Jesus told of the wise man and foolish man, we learn the lesson of diligence and wisdom which can prepare us for a storm. The foolish man quickly built his house on sand, and the wise man patiently built his house on a rock. It’s like the story of the three little pigs. The pig who built quickly so he could enjoy life outside his home, later suffered ruin when the wolf came; as opposed to his brother who build his home out of bricks and survived. It’s devastating to think of how such small and seemingly insignificant stories can still teach today, but are often ignored by the masses.

Ancient years of hard working apprenticeships have been replaced by driven textbook memorization techniques intended to harvest statistics built on sand with sticks.

Children are born to reach the stars they are appointed to and we avert their energy and attention away from their individual greatness. Adults have been deceived into thinking their efforts will give the world a stellar academic scholar, but the result is scatterbrained victims who have missed their place in the universe. Oh we’ve muddled through, but is merely existing the desired achievement?

We force tortoises to trade in their feet and shells for fast and furry legs that don’t belong on reptiles. We’re not all born to be hares.

Many school systems (both public and private), have put children on a conveyor belt to be fed into a machine that alters their created purpose. They’ve missed the sacred for the Styrofoam.

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Even many homeschool curriculum vendors have been deceived into following the same destructive patterns. They naively (or maybe deceptively) changed lingo by inserting religious vocab into “secular” textbooks and passed them off as “Christ honored” education materials. They are choking on false fruit decorated in religious glitter.

We must not war with one another in a mad dash race for domination. That sprint doesn’t teach us the value in the cross country longevity needed to have the character and self discipline to be whole individuals who can invest in future generations.

We should aim to move forward, but not when we sacrifice the sacred for the superficial.

Each child is unique and will have their own created purpose. Allow your imagination to flourish for a moment as you ponder the expansive greatness of your child’s future if he/she is raised and educated in a way that strengthens their potential. Daydream with me for a time as we envision the success your child will achieve in his/her arena of expertise if they are formed, shaped, and sharpened in that specific talent.

Have we lost the skillful art of apprenticeship?

We must consider the danger of removing a child’s inner adult and replacing it with a robot void of the truth of what the child is destined to become.

We can’t expect all children to grow up to be hares. The world still needs the diligent tortoises, the beautiful peacocks, the swift cheetahs, and poetic love we witness in pods of dolphins who travel the seas as families.

As parents, we must consider what is best for our children and help them to grow into their personal infinities. We must contend for their future and refuse to allow anyone, or any entity, to steal their future from them. We each have our own path to choose.

Humanity must be set free to become what their stars have waiting for them.

 

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The reality of our freedom as parents and families

Yesterday I published an exaggerated post to show how ludicrous some of the statements made about homeschoolers can be. Along with that, I wrote about our freedom and my thoughts on how inappropriate it is to place laws on parents under the notion that they’re already criminals in need of supervision by the government. Perhaps I didn’t make that clear enough, as some folks on Facebook didn’t even address the point I was trying to make. They simply wanted to insult me for the exaggerated statements I made instead of acknowledging that those statements were examples of the same approach many critics make against homeschooling. Neither of which, in reality, do any good at all.

I’ve genuinely tried to listen to opposing views and tried to reason with ideas of improvement. One part of improving any community is learning how to cooperate with one another and allow the ability to disagree and find better solutions that people can agree to accept. One common phenomena I see is the insistence that we all agree with what critics are saying and bow down to their will for our lives. That’s not how collaboration works.

I also know from experience, that if you want to see change in a community, you need to be a part of that community. Trying to force change in a community you hate, belittle, and accuse isn’t going to bring about long lasting change. The best change a community can move toward is one that is inspired by love for the community and for those within it.

Reprimanding a child every day with threats that they can’t eat the cookie in the jar or else, isn’t a healthy way to inspire a child to follow healthy eating habits. Raising children on threats and punishments puts a child in fear and anxiety. Imposing the “fear of possibly breaking the rules” every day is abusive. That’s no way to raise a child and no way to lead a community or our country.

When you inspire a child to make healthy choices and offer positive results, it will produce a child with a desire to live well. The same applies to a community. We are supposed to be free citizens. Living a free life comes with the responsibility to live wisely and respectfully. When people don’t live wisely and respectfully then there are measures that can be taken to bring proper justice and restoration to the people involved.

Assuming people are not going to live respectfully and so creating laws to control them ..”just in case” does not nurture a person, nor a community. It’s saying, “I don’t trust you to be a respectful person so I’m going to put restrictions on you for the rest of your life”. We are not to be treated as though we are on parole. The Constitution guarantees that the government will not  deprive us of life, liberty, or property, without due process of law” (Fifth Amendment).

The US Constitution website says this about due process of law,

“A law must be clear, fair, and have a presumption of innocence to comply with procedural due process.”

When critics of homeschooling say, “Homeschooling parents might be abusing their kids so we need to regulate them” , then that doesn’t show a presumption of innocence. It shows a presumption of guilt.

Another argument made is that homeschool teachers should be held to the same education standards as a public school teacher (by having a degree). However, a homeschool teacher is also a parent of the children they teach. A public school teacher is not our children’s parent. A homeschool parent-teacher is teaching only their own children, while a public school teacher is teaching a class full of other people’s children. A homeschool parent-teacher is teaching (on average)  between 1-4 children, not a class of 30.

What some critics don’t seem to acknowledge is that all parents are teachers in some respect or another. We teach our own children to use the toilet, to feed themselves, to cut their meat, to wait their turn, to be patient, to speak, to dress themselves, to wash their hands, to communicate, to recognize shapes and colors, to do household chores, to read, to count, and to inspire them to have interest in life and all it entails. We do all of this by the time they’re five years old. We do it all without any degree or oversight from the government. We do it without filing an affidavit of which TV shows we’ll let them watch nor do we inform them of what letters they know by the time they’re 3 years old. Yet, critics think that once the kids are five years old we all need to register with the government if we’re going to continue to teach at home. Most recently, critics assume a homeschool family is more likely to abuse their children.

Our Constitution protects a woman’s right to have an abortion in her first trimester, but people seek to halt parents from educating at home?

Our nation has protected that same right for girls as young as 12 years old without her parents consent, but critics want to make parents follow strict guidelines for teaching math, history, and grammar.

Politicians have created laws that allow strangers to give our children condoms and abortions, but critics want to establish laws to infringe upon a parents decisions to teach their own children how to write, learn multiplication, and study science.

Let’s compare the sides, shall we?

Strangers in Government want to:

Allow children to have surgical procedures on their sexual organs

Permit them to have sex

Give birth control (chemical medicines) to girls

…all WITHOUT a parent’s permission.

And parents want to:

Teach Reading

Teach Math

Teach Science

Teach English/Foreign language

…but critics want to FORCE parents to get government permission to do so.

Odd thing…several of those critics protest about parents consenting to infant boys having a circumcision, but want to force parents to allow their girls to get abortions.

Folks, I’m just shaking my head here. 

Then we need to consider the First Amendment;

“Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof;”

Some religious folks have deeply sacred beliefs about who they let influence their children. They might object to have their children spend non-parental time with certain children and they might object to the political and moral influence some textbooks contain. They also might believe strongly in teaching their religious tenants in conjunction with their academics. Regardless of whether you agree with their views or not, it’s their freedom to exercise their religious convictions without government oversight, approval, or intrusion.

Now lets take a look at the child’s rights, because I do feel this is an important topic. Our children, born in the United States, are also protected by the United States Constitution. Well, within reason anyway.

A commentary on The US Constitution site says,

“Generally speaking, the Constitution applies equally to everyone, regardless of age, color, race, religion, or any other factor. However, minors are a special category of person, and in many cases, the rights of minors can be suppressed in ways that the rights of adults simply may not be.”

The topic of a student (child) rights can be tricky and the most obvious reason is due to their age and ability to be responsible and accountable as equally as an adult can be.

Another commentary on the site goes on to say,

There are several reasons why violations of student rights are upheld by the courts. One of the most basic reasons is known as in loco parentis. This Latin phrase basically means that while a student is in the custody of a school, the school can and often should act as a parent. In this duty of the school, many decisions can be made that are outside the normal governmental purview. The other basic reason for violation of student rights has to do with the goal of school — to educate. If an act of a student can interfere with the educational process, that act may, in many cases, be suppressed.

A few things should be noted here. First, most of this essay applies only to public schools. As private institutions, private schools are not subject to any restrictions in terms of violations of the rights of students. Hence, while a public school might have to prove that its violations are for a higher purpose or stem from its in loco parentis responsibilities, a private school may set limits arbitrarily.” (emphasis mine)

A school can act AS a parent WHILE the child is AT SCHOOL. A child (and his/her family) have the right to have the child attend a public school so the doors are always open.  Many states classify homeschools as private schools and private schools (homeschools) have the freedom to set their own rules.  As a private school, I don’t have to act AS a parent for my children, because I AM THE PARENT of my children. In a private school, they can restrict speech, religious beliefs, and create their own dress codes. This is their freedom. A private school’s teachers are not required to have a state degree  nor are they required to use the same curriculum. And parents have the right to choose which school their kids attend.

The public school (in my opinion) should ONLY act AS a parent when a child is endangering themselves or others, or being disruptive to the educational experience. Otherwise, decisions such as giving permission to leave school for an abortion should be deferred to the parent. But since the public school has infringed upon the parents rights to guide their own children, many parents have opted for other choices for education. There’s a big difference between a school looking out for a child’s health (like calling 911 if they split their head open on the playground) and counseling the minor girl to open her legs for a stranger to perform a surgical procedure on her sexual organs.

Back to the student’s rights. A student (child of the USA) has the right to attend a public school and the parents have the right not to send their children to public school. The parents have the right to choose their child’s education. The public school is required to allow all children to go to their schools without discrimination, but that doesn’t give them the right to force children into their schools.

Parents have the right to disagree and voice their grievances about government laws and how those laws affect the schools their kids attend.

From Amendment 1: “….the right of the people peaceably to assemble, and to petition the Government for a redress of grievances.”

The states get to decide how to implement family laws. In California, the parents have the right to choose their child’s education. When a marriage is dissolved, the state mediates to assist the parents in dividing up their time with their children. Each parent, so long as they aren’t abusive, have equal rights to be with their children and make decisions for their children’s lives. In a custody hearing, the judge and parents decide together, how much time the children will spend with each parent and how much percentage each parent has in the legal decisions regarding their children. The hope of courts is that parents can be equally responsible, sharing legal decisions 50/50. Often times this isn’t the case so one parent is awarded 100% legal custody, insuring that parent makes the legal choices.

Sadly, sometimes parents both lose their rights and the courts seek an adoptive parent(s) to assume responsibility for the children. While the custody of the child(ren) is in limbo, THEN the courts can decide which school the child attends.

Sometimes parents mess up ROYALLY and the children NEED intervention. I support that with all my heart. However, not all parents are making “bad decisions” for their kids just because they don’t agree with the decisions public school officials make. A public school official (or government official) is not automatically a better ‘acting parent’ than the birth parents are.

Requiring a parent to have a degree to teach academics would have to be a law equally applied to all parents for all needs of a child. If we went that direction then parents would need a license to get pregnant, a child development degree to raise a child, a nursing degree to administer first aid and decide when the child should see the doctor, a health and nutrition degree in order to plan meals, a cooking degree to make meals, a physical education degree to lead the child’s daily exercise, and a mental health degree to counsel their own children. A part time parent who chooses public school would need the same degrees and licenses of a full time parent who chooses to educate at home. A part time parent still has their children all day every summer and on vacations. That’s still a lot of time alone with their kids without a school official to keep an eye on them. A part time parent isn’t gaining the same full-time experience that a stay at home parent does. So they could potentially be required to have more oversight due to their lack of hourly experience. But parenting just doesn’t work like that.

People have babies without a degree and with no parenting experience at all. This is natural. Families find ways to create communities for their children whether it be in public schools, churches, karate classes, baseball teams, or any number of other clubs and organizations in their cities. This is the freedom we have and it must be protected.

Just because someone has a government identification card doesn’t make them better decision makers than parents are. Not all government leaders are good leaders…granted not all parents are good parents either. But we grow and learn together and we’re all innocent unless proven guilty.

And living life trying to find guilt in everyone is a pretty pathetic way to live.

 

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You’re just arguing over who gets to control the kids

Parents and teachers should not be in opposition to one another, likewise public school parents and homeschool parents shouldn’t oppose each other either. Sometimes their arguments against one another sounds like two divorced parents arguing over who gets to control the kids. Each side thinks they know what’s best for the children. Being a parent is hard work. It’s even more difficult when people are working in opposition to one another.

And it’s the kids who are suffering on both sides of the debate.

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Full time parenting is not easy by any means. It’s not even a paying job. Being a full time parent isn’t a 40 hour work week with a medical plan. I’ve read many books on parenting, both religious and non religious. I’ve attended countless seminars on child rearing, child safety classes with the county, and I even took classes on how to get licensed for in-home day care. None of that education could have prepared me for what day to day parenting is really like. Just because a person takes an assortment of accredited courses on child development and child education doesn’t make them a pro. A degree in Child Development doesn’t make you a professional parent. Putting your hands to the task of daily reality with children is the best way to learn how to be a better parent. It takes practice. Many full time parents have more practice than their neighboring parents do, who only parent part time. That doesn’t mean they’re less of a parent, they just share their parenting responsibilities with other people. I would think a public school teacher would say something very similar. Their degrees and class time does not automatically make them a great teacher. It takes years of practice to become “Teacher of the Year”.

In America, we are free to make the choices we feel are best for ourselves and our families. Some folks mess up pretty bad and need intervention, but that doesn’t mean all parents need intervention.

For the past few years, I have worked diligently to understand people with different beliefs. I tend to play ‘devil’s advocate’ so I can see where people are coming from. Just trying to put the shoe on the other foot. I lived 15 years steeped in a twisted for of fundamentalism, then left it for various reasons, one of which is the blatant lack of support for our Constitutional rights. Yes, ironic isn’t it? Some fundamentalists are shouting for protection of their view on the Constitution, but if you want to exercise YOUR freedom of speech in THEIR community, they won’t have it. You’ll eventually be bullied into submission to their view or bullied out of their communities.

Sadly, some groups have twisted the passages of the bible into a weapon against children and demand their ‘freedom of religion’ to practice their parenting teachings with their children. This is how abuse gets covered up in a religious setting. So when I read the opinions of outraged former homeschoolers demanding for stricter standards for Christian Homeschoolers, I get it. I understand their anger. However, some of their cliches are just as absurd as some fundamentalist cliches are. I wonder if they’ve noticed.

Critics: “Homeschoolers are more likely to abuse, because they’re alone all day with their kids. They should be regulated by the government.”

So what about those critics when their public schooled kids are home all summer?

Shall we say :
“Parents of public schooled children are more likely to neglect (that’s abuse) their kids all summer, because they’re gone at work and not all families can afford summer camp. They should be regulated by the government.”

Both statements assume the parents are guilty and seek to control them as if they’re already criminals.

Critics:
“Homeschool parents shouldn’t be allowed to teach their kids without first having a degree in education. Put the kids in public school until the parent can get a degree.”

Shall we say:
“Public school parents shouldn’t be allowed to be parents without a child development degree. Have CPS take their kids until they’re done getting their degrees. Then they can have their kids back.”

Both statements assume that parents should not have children unless they have degrees from a college.

You see, when you insist on a law to be targeted to one group, that’s discrimination. You also have to keep in mind that whatever laws are passed will set a  precedence from which all new laws are created and supported. If you force one set of parents to comply then you have to enforce that ALL parents comply.

When you pass a law that demands the government to be the all-seeing-eye and “approval giver” on parents then you’re giving them the precedence to become owners of your  children. Children are NOT property. They are human beings protected by our Constitution.

Many critics are former fundamentalists and I don’t think they realize how much they sound like their former pastors. They go around dictating how to be parents, what to believe, and how to live life. I’m all for wise and good advice on becoming better individuals and parents, but my freedom should not be infringed upon by zealous law givers. I don’t need, nor do I want, former fundamentalists coming at me like little cult pastors trying to tell me how to live and take my freedom from me. I’m sick to death of religious people claiming everyone else is stupid godless sinners and they’re the elite and enlighten all-superior thinkers. I’m also nauseated by how many former homeschoolers think homeschool parents are abusive simple minded idiots who need the government to do our thinking for us.

At the same time, I understand their frustration about children being abused. BUT, we can’t treat parents as if they’re criminals in need of ankle bracelets.

Families are sovereign. The state is required to protect our individual sovereignty.

Lets turn their criticisms around on them and see what they think.

“You can’t be allowed to feed your kids unless you have a medical degree of some kind. You should go to college and get a degree in health and nutrition before you feed your kids. You need government regulation to make sure you don’t starve your kids to death or over feed them and cause obesity.”

“You can’t have sex unless you have a license first. You should be required by the government to have a degree in child development just in case you (girls) or your girlfriend gets pregnant. Because if you have a kid, you’ll need a degree in parenting and nutrition.”

“Public school children are with their parents all day, every summer. Those parents need regulation. They aren’t used to being with kids all day every day, they are more likely to become impatient and beat their kids, or neglect them by leaving them home unsupervised. Domestic violence stats rise when the weather gets hot. How do we know those parents, who lack experience being with kids all day, will not abuse or neglect their kids? They should register with the state and sign an affidavit to let the state know how they plan to occupy their kids all summer.”

“Any parent of a public schooled child needs to have a weekly CPS worker come by and check up on them to make sure they aren’t beating their kids or neglecting them all summer. Complete with strip searches for the kids to make sure they don’t have bruises.”

Oh what a tangled web we weave. Control, control, control. Not to mention the idea that you’re creating a victim mentality in children.

You see, homeschooling is full time parenting. So you’re either a full time parent or a part time parent who shares parenting responsibilities with public school officials. When you share parenting responsibilities with strangers, then they need government oversight to be sure those people are respecting your children. It’s your CHOICE to co-op with them in parenting your kids. Homeschoolers choose to parent their kids full time. Just for the record, I’m not saying one is better than another.

When you begin sharing your children with teachers, those teachers are with your kids 8 hours a day all school year long. It’s no wonder some of them assume that they are better parents than you are. After all, they have a degree in child development and education and you don’t. If they see a child struggling socially or if their grades start dropping, they often assume the problem is at home. Sometimes it is, sometimes it isn’t. Sometimes it’s in the hallway between classes or on the street when they walk home. But how would it feel if YOU were suspected as a criminal any time your kid had a bad day at school? Now all of a sudden YOU get a CPS visit when you didn’t need it. Your kid is now on a watch list at school, which means you’re on a watch list too. The real culprit who needs to be on the watch list is in the hallway or on the street when neither you nor a teacher is even around.

My point is really this…you can’t treat people as if they’re criminals when there is no evidence. This chaotic-paranoia-suspicion mentality  has been plaguing humanity for AGES and perpetuated by systems and organizations from government to churches. Our society is being pulled apart at the seams. People are suspect of one another and it creates an Us vs. Them society which can only lead to a total break down.

What we need is real community where people are willing to trust each other and work together for the common good of all. What we need is a whole lot of good Samaritans to love those in need and assist when we can and when it’s needed. The public schools have PLENTY going on to keep their hands full as it is. I don’t oppose them. I’m not out to shut them all down. While they do have some bad teachers who need to be weeded out (or helped to improve), they do have some excellent teachers that need our support. Likewise, although their are some abusive families claiming to be homeschoolers, there are many good families who really are educating their kids and they also need our support.

“But the homeschool community isn’t doing a good enough job at policing themselves.”

Well we could say the same about public schools. That’s not deflecting, it’s the truth.

If we continue to push against each other then we’re still a part of the problem. The Us vs. Them mentality will keep breaking down our society and weaken our nation as a whole. Just as getting a degree in Child Development doesn’t make you a professional parent, getting a degree in education does’t make you a professional teacher. I’ve known plenty of “teachers” who were total flops at teaching and they make the rest of their community of teachers look bad. I’ve also seen enough “homeschoolers” who were total flops at raising their children and they make the rest of their community look bad too. We could argue all day about which community has the worst leaders, but that doesn’t really solve anything. It causes more paranoia, less trust, and perpetuates more fear.

Living in fear is no way to live. Homeschool families should not have to live in fear of CPS or public schools. CPS and public school should not have to fear that homeschoolers will shut down their jobs. Wouldn’t it be so awesome if CPS didn’t need to exist? But sadly, many children and families do need their intervention. Wouldn’t it be great if all parents could successfully educate their own kids and let the teachers get better paying jobs? Sadly, not all parents should homeschool and so public school teachers are needed. Our society needs all of us to work together, to collaborate, and to support each other. This is what we need for GROWTH in this nation.

This is what our children need for their own growth and safety. They need a community who works together to give them the best chance to become successful, to be safe, and to build a better nation for future generations. I’m tired of writing about child abuse. Shouldn’t we all be striving to be better parents no matter what education style we choose for our kids? Shouldn’t we all be striving to be better people in general?

Can’t we do a better job as Americans so our government officials can handle the really tough situations?

If we can’t even manage our own homes and schools then how will our nation ever have a chance to move forward?

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