Balancing Home as I Write by Faith

Today we get to receive inspiration from Jamerrill Stewart. It has been a pleasure to guest blog swap with her this month. I do hope you’ll take some time to get to know her at her blog Holy Spirit Led Homeschooling.

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Someone found my blog this week by Googling, “Lord Jesus, please help me.” And I’m reminded this isn’t about me anymore.  I’ve come to see online writing and blogging as a ministry–a small way that this homeschooling mother of five children can encourage another soul across the world. I have big dreams in my little heart from my big God who holds the entire universe in the palm of His hand. True, some days I’ve written about ways I save my large family money, other times I’ve written about ways to get more Jesus into your day,  just so it all points back to the Lord the topic doesn‘t matter.

I’ve also been told that:

Ÿ  Blogging isn’t a real ministry

Ÿ  I’m wasting my time

Ÿ  No one cares about what I’m writing

Ÿ  I could be doing “so much more” for the Lord

The devil is a liar.

I prefer to think in different terms and see writing and blogging through my faith-filled glasses.  I choose to believe that I am doing the best with what I have been given.  I have a laptop in the corner of my farmhouse kitchen and a heart for Him. Very early every morning I pound out my heart on the keyboard for articles on my own blog, other websites, or larger writing dreams that are beckoning to me from beyond.

I’ve been working on ways to keep balance been my home and faith writing.

Priorities

My first ministry will forever be to my husband, our children and our home. Here is the proper order that my life should be:

1) Jesus 2) Husband 3) Children 4) Home 5) Writing

My time with the Lord must take priority, whether I’m writing or not.  I want to spend time with Jesus.  I need His peace to infuse every second of my day.  If I have my priorities in order then our entire day has a steady flow. I have undoubtedly had my share of messy days.  Days where I told myself that I would just work on my writing for a little bit and then spend my time with the Lord.  Like clockwork, I would soon find myself with a kitchen full of hungry tummies, while my own soul was starving for God‘s Word. I didn’t seek the kingdom first, and we all felt it throughout the day. He must be first.  Lesson learned.

When momma’s priorities are unbalanced, everyone can tell.


Momma_and_Liam by sisterlisa, on Pix-O-Sphere

{photo credit Jamerrill hosted by Sisterlisa at Pix-O-Sphere}

Schedule

I have myself on a schedule.  At any given point during the day, I know what I need to be doing. Not that I’m always on schedule, but since I have one laid out I can jump back in where ever I fell off. Here’s a snippet of my schedule:

Early in the morning, I spend my time with the Lord and then write.  Once I reach my cut off time, and my children start to get up, I close my computer screen and walk away from my writing. I serve my family all day–homeschooling, cleaning, leading, cooking, loving, reading, and snuggling. In the afternoon, during my children’s free-time, I write a little more. But once this 2nd writing time is up, I have to walk away from it again.  Naturally, since I get up well before my children, I have to go to bed at night at a decent time.  This works well though because it’s the same schedule my husband is on.

I also lay out my daily, weekly and monthly writing goals on free calendar forms that I found from DonnaYoung.org This way when I sit down for my time to write I’m not scrambling for topics or wondering what articles are due.  As new projects, topics or invitations to write for other sites arise, I add those commitments to my writing calendar.

That brings me to my next point…

Unplug

At least, close the laptop screen if I don‘t completely log out. I have to be purposeful about it.  You know it’s easy to be sucked into cyber space.  I have to give myself a clear breaking point.  I give myself a time in the afternoon to ‘handle electronic business,’ emails, comments, social media scheduling etc. I keep this in mind during my morning writing time so I don’t end up spending that time lost in my email or tweeting #shame. In addition, I have one day per week where I completely unplug. I’m unavailable for 24 hours…scary, but refreshing.

That’s a little peak at how I balance finding time for faith writing, while keeping Jesus and family in the forefront.

Jamerrill_Stewart by sisterlisa, on Pix-O-SphereJamerrill Stewart loves Jesus fiercely. Her and her husband Travis have been married for 13 years, and are the blessed parents to 5 children ages 11, 8, 5, 2 & infant. Jamerrill writes about homeschooling on-the-cheap, frugal/large family living and all things Jesus at Holy Spirit-led Homeschooling, Heart of the Matter {online} and The Homeschool Post.
Other articles by Jamerrill:
Our Homeschool Year in Review
My Life with Chickens
Choosing Home: Trusting my Husband to Provide for our Family

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Summer Fun: Family Learns How-to Play Basketball Together

Today my friend Jamerrill Stewart is guest blogging for us. She writes at Holy Spirit Led Homeschooling and I have the pleasure of co-writing with her and the other gals at The Homeschool Post.

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My husband is a sports guy. He played high school, then college, basketball, football and track. Part of his vision for our family is that we would play sports together. Now, we haven’t always done this, but we’re trying to get better at it. Recently my husband decided that he was going to teach the family how to play basketball. He drove our five children and myself to our local park and he started our first basketball lessons.

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{photo credit Jamerrill}

Basketball is a sport that our growing family of seven can do together. It cost nothing other than our time, a ball and the park basketball court. The most important aspect of family sports is it promotes relationship building. We are not only learning to shoot hoops, we’re building lifetime memories.

jamerrill's_phone_043 by sisterlisa, on Pix-O-Sphere
{photo credit Jamerrill}

This sport is a ton of exercise for the coach and the players. We don’t play full on basketball {yet}, but my husband is teaching us the proper way to make shots, dribble and guard.

He’s even had us watching how-to videos.

Tips for keeping family sports fun:

- Be an Encourager – I tell every child “good shot,” “nice try,” or “you’re getting better.” We speak positive to one another and keep our smiles on. Everyone needs encouragement and positive conversation builds the child up.

- Everyone has a turn – Granted, our 4 yr old daughter likes to skip her turn shooting the ball, and pretends she’s a mother bird laying her egg–right in the middle of the court. We all stand like ducks in a line and take a turn with coach daddy.

- Stay cool – We’ve been playing in the evenings once the world has cooled off. We still bring water bottles with us. Children will tell us that they are not thirsty. However, we know by the time we’re done playing they will be.

- Add a treat – After our family basketball games we head to 7-11 for Slurpees. Your treat can be nutritious if you prefer. I tend to lean towards any reason to have ice cold, slushy goodness.

So, tell me, does your family play sports together? If so what do you play, or what would you like to play together?

Jamerrill_Stewart by sisterlisa, on Pix-O-SphereJamerrill Stewart loves Jesus fiercely. Her and her husband Travis have been married for 13 years, and are the blessed parents to 5 children ages 11, 8, 5, 2 & infant. Jamerrill writes about homeschooling on-the-cheap, frugal/large family living and all things Jesus at
Holy Spirit-led Homeschooling, Heart of the Matter {online} and The Homeschool Post.
Other articles by Jamerrill:
Our Homeschool Year in Review
Top Ten Ways I save my Family Money
Choosing Home: Trusting my Husband to Provide for our Family

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Homeschooling Unconventionally

My friend Jennifer is our guest today. She blogs at For Such a Time is This, writes reviews for books, homeschool materials, and has quite a selection of comfort food recipes you really must check out. I hope her article about homeschooling outside the box will encourage you today. If her article encourages you, would you mind Tweeting and Stumbling for us? Thank you ever so much.

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Since Summer is drawing to a close, I have been thinking more and more about what we will be learning in school this coming year. Usually by now, I have the whole homeschooling schedule planned out, everything copied and ready to start the first day of school. This year, however, we are taking a different approach. In fact, I think I will be going back to schooling like we did that first year.

Kayla reading her book by sisterlisa, on Pix-O-Sphere
{photo credit Jennifer hosted at Pix-O-Sphere}

I had gotten side tracked away from allowing the kids their freedom to explore because I wanted to make sure all the subjects were covered. That method works fine for some people, but in our home, it seems to squelch their freedom to learn. We are looking for ways to be free of the traditional type of schooling and yet find ways to allow the kids to study until their heart’s content on something that really intrigues them.

In the past, we have learned about electricity by using lemons, art appreciation using food coloring and milk, and we even spent a whole month learning about birds! When you give your kids room to show their creativity and the things they are learning, you might even catch them showing their friends what they’ve learned!

The kids Fire by sisterlisa, on Pix-O-Sphere
{photo credit Jennifer hosted at Pix-O-Sphere}

Homeschooling your kids doesn’t mean that they have to have their noses stuck in a book for hours all day long. Explore, create, and find ways to learn–and do it unconventionally! Step outside the homeschooling box! You might even find ways to learn by visiting your local shopping mall.

So what is your favorite way of homeschooling? Are you more relaxed or are you more rigid with your schedule?


Jennifer blogs at For Such a Time as This and has guest blogged on many websites. A few other articles you might find interesting are:
Banking 101 for Homeschooled High Schooler
Homeschool Burnout
Making Oobleck

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