Organic Living

I made a few more changes in my online presence that I wanted to be sure you knew about. I changed my Twitter handle to @OrganicHSL. I feel it fits me better with where I am at in my life now. If you already followed me before, no need to re-follow. We’re still connected. More below..

 

Some might be wondering what I mean by ‘organic’ and I have mentioned it a bit from time to time, but for those who are new I’ll give a recap. I use the term for ‘organic’ for a few areas of our lives.

In our education: After we made some changes in how we home educate, we weren’t sure how to describe our homeschooling approach. We aren’t traditional homeschoolers, yet we aren’t unschoolers either. We have some books that we teach from, but in other topics we go for the more natural approach. We don’t like to test, but see the need for it in Math and Spelling. I found that if I don’t schedule Math and Spelling it won’t get done and I have yet to find a way to be organic with those two subjects.

We have our serious subjects in the morning then taper off into the natural methods of education toward the end of the day. I love the inquisitive minds of children and how their own interest leads them to learn without them thinking about it being ‘school’. We utilize documentaries, Barnes and Noble, the Library, field trips, and meeting with people in specific fields our children show interest in. We do everything we can to allow them to have exposure with a variety of things in life and then watch their interest level. We don’t want to force them into a box, instead we nudge them and then see where they gravitate to.

In our spirituality: We believe in organic church, not so much the ‘movement’ called organic church, but rather the flowing of the organic nature of the Church herself as she walks this earth in Christ. We have open house fellowship once a month where we cook together and discuss life, offer support, and have question/answer time about spiritual living. We aim to keep it as organic as possible so it doesn’t become repetitive or boxy. We do attend a regularly scheduled time of music and inspirational speaking in a town near us that we adore, but it’s not a traditional ‘church’. It’s a great group of people who are developing a community together and we love what they’re doing.

What is a Spiritual Gypsy? My daughter came up with this term and we discussed what it meant for both of us. We have different views about a few things, yet even in those differences we have so much in common. I decided I liked the term for myself as well. For me, a spiritual gypsy means I have my own soul liberty. I have chosen to believe in Christ, but I follow the leading of the Spirit in a way that more resembles the organic life Jesus lived when he was in his skin. He traveled home to home and sometimes to temples to love people. He spent time with doctors and various religious leaders, while also making ample time for regular townspeople from gluttons and  drunkards, to tax collectors. I’m a lot like Paul too. He knew the culture of his day, the various religions, and the customs of the people. He knew how to blend in, respect those traditions, and even participated in some of them so he could have a chance to share the good news with them.

I’m an avid theological student and I find enjoyment in learning about how other people believe and appreciate how each of them choose to worship. I look beyond the initial appearance of their practices and look for their heart. Sometimes I see people who see a ‘blurry image’ of God that has been misrepresented to the world by imperfect humans and yet their hearts still ring true to the melody and rhythm of his divine love. I don’t worry about their blurry image, I just love them where they are. I may not write a whole lot of theological point by point type of articles, but I know theology very well. I just choose to live out my love for God organically.

Living Organically: All of this combined is our organic living. I’m not a crunchy-granola type of person, although I do buy from the Farmer’s Market and Natural Food Stores. My daughter is studying to be a Holistic Practitioner so we practice herbal remedies to ailments as much as possible. We enjoy being outdoors and since we live by the beach we get to walk on the sand barefoot and soak up the sea moisture. Love it!

Organic Spiritual Practices: I believe in earthing (some call it grounding). It’s when I connect with God through his creation by meditating on his goodness and love through nature. I do a lot of visualization such as imagining the sea breeze is his breath, my feet are soothed in the sand, and the sun is his warmth. There is so much positive energy that comes from God and I can feel it in this gorgeous earth he gave to us. Some charismatic types of Christians like to seek the sense of his presence in a different way in their church services, I like to sense him in the nature he created. Here’s an example from Psalms.

In my Photography: I love my camera and the images I can capture are all about my love for God. I love to see the world from all different angles, whether I zoom in to see a close up of his tiniest work or I pan out to get a view of a majestic landscape. I experience organic spirituality through my photography. Here are some examples:

dragonfly by sisterlisa, on Pix-O-Sphere

mini daisy by sisterlisa, on Pix-O-Sphere

canyon by sisterlisa, on Pix-O-Sphere

coast by sisterlisa, on Pix-O-Sphere

blue ocean by sisterlisa, on Pix-O-Sphere

In my business: I am a co-owner and the founder of our photo community for families, Pix-O-Sphere. It’s where families can host their photos in a safe environment. We also allow for photo sharing so bloggers can not only see your work, but use what you share in their blog articles. Not everyone is confident in putting their own images online and with the rising prices of stock photos and the unstable economy, we wanted to provide an alternative to the other popular sites. If you are confident in your work, you can choose to sell your images there as well. In addition to the main portion of the site we also have a blog (which is being redesigned this week). On the blog I am coordinating a lot of fun for the families of the blogosphere. I’ll update you more on that as the days go by. I follow an organic approach to this business in that I listen to the bloggers to see what they would like to have in the community. We’re building the site for YOU! So we want to know what your desires for the blogosphere are.

In my Home: The Home is my castle..my cabana..my place of solitude. It’s where I spin my life and nurture my family’s lives. After being out in the craziness of So Cal traffic and high paced community, it’s where we rest. This is the reason for the name of my blog, The HomeSpun Life. I make my home as comfortable as possible for my family so they can feel at ease here. A place where they can kick off their shoes and be themselves. It’s where they can be nurtured and healed from any chaos that comes their way in this life.

Bringing my home to my blog is my way of welcoming you into our lives. I want you to feel welcomed here…as if we’re sitting down for coffee together. Pull up a chair and introduce yourself. Feel free to leave a link to your ‘about me’ page in the comment section so I can come visit your ‘home’ on the net.

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A New Direction of Inspiration for Home and Life

It’s been a long 3 1/2 months since my last blog post, but many of you have kept up with me at my Facebook page (of which I am truly thankful). A lot has transpired in our lives since moving just over 500 miles to the sunny coastline of Southern California. I want to thank you for being patient with my zany questions about faith and religion. Leaving an isolated form of Christianity left me with a whirlwind of questions and heartache. In addition to that, the massive transport of our lives to a whole new community left my thinking process quite chaotic. In the past year or so, I have been able to connect with some friends via Facebook who happen to live down here. We had them over a couple of times to the house before my husband and I decided to take our family to their fellowship not far from here. It has been such a sweet experience getting to know them and we look forward to connecting with them regularly.

I have taken these past few months to reconsider the direction of my blog. My thoughts and feelings on many issues have taken quite a turn, but I pray that the feel of my blog will continue to have the same conversational style of writing coupled with home spun hospitality and inspiration for life. I welcome you to get your coffee or tea and enjoy life with me in a community of support no matter where you’re at in your journey. I pray that my blog will be a place where you can be comforted (not condemned), while still being challenged to think, feel, and love deeply. You are warmly welcomed to be a part of my online community and I hope we can grow together in grace.

While it is true that we came from a place of legalism in years past, but I don’t want my blog to be all about those painful memories. We have had some unhealthy experiences in some church communities, but there are some really sweet Christians out there that don’t deserve to have their faith represented by believers who…well, let’s just say they need to grow. Even the media highlights the believers who end up making decisions that smear the name of “Christian”, but that doesn’t mean they represent Christ by their actions. I don’t want my blog to be a ‘wanted poster’ broadcasting all the brokenness that people endure. I’d rather my blog be a place of rest. A place where you can put up your feet and know they are washed white as snow. I want my blog to be a place where we can grow together through our stories of brokenness and be in awe of the Light that uses us as lamps in the darkness.

I look forward to sharing with you the thoughts I’ve had about ‘the home’and life over these last few months. Whether you’re a full time ‘stay at home mom’ or a ‘work outside the home’ mom, you all work and are all welcome here. We all have homes and lives that thrive when inspired and encouraged, and my prayer is that you will find that here.

Now, I ‘d like to share some photos that show the beautiful new life we have here in Southern California.

Your friend and sister,

Lisa

Across the street:
shore by sisterlisa, on Pix-O-Sphere

At the pier:

shake by sisterlisa, on Pix-O-Sphere

Our Coastal home across the street from the beach:

house by sisterlisa, on Pix-O-Sphere

kitchen by sisterlisa, on Pix-O-Sphere

living room by sisterlisa, on Pix-O-Sphere

 

Some thoughts I’ve had recently. I hope you’ll be inspired.

Inspiration for the Home and Life can be found anywhere, if we’re looking through the eyes of love.

Sometimes a mom has got to be her own best friend.

Nurturing unity in the family is a high calling for a mother. May you be granted with wisdom to keep the family strong through love.

As hard as we try to be good parents, our kids eventually make mistakes. May we be good Ambassadors of God’s grace in their lives.

Lives will grow by being rooted in love, from the home.

Even a busy family can develop nurturing evening moments for bonding. The home is truly a special place.

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Day 4 Reigning in Equality

Welcome to day 4 of 5 Days to Becoming Goddess of Your Home. Today I want to share my heart with you about reigning in equality in the home with your spouse. This can be a difficult concept for a partnership that has been under a patriarchy teaching in the past, and I will be expounding more on this topic at another time. When my husband and I left a patriarchy type church, we went through a major shift in how we reigned together in the home. By no means are we the best role model for reigning in equality in the home, but we do our best to continue to learn to be humble and balanced as equal partners.

I’m going to share just a few thing to consider in having an equal partnership.

1. Realize that you both have strengths and weaknesses. Self evaluation is a must before you can even think about what your spouse’s weaknesses are. If we aren’t careful we can run into the trap of thinking we’re somehow superior to the other and then a power struggle begins. We want to avoid that! Ask your spouse if he is willing to sit down and go over a few things together. Determine that you will each write out a list of your strengths and weaknesses in regards to your marriage and home. Then put the lists side by side and determine which of you will be responsible for each thing based on what your strengths are. Many times where one is weak the other is strong.

2. Be willing to assist one another in the areas of weakness without condemnation or belittling. It’s far too easy to get lost in a groove of complaining and belittling. This is part of our human nature..to take the road of least resistance. We need to push against that grain and build each other up with encouragement. I’m not fond of the idea that whatever area you’re weak in, that you never have to take care of those things. If something were to happen to your spouse, you would need to know how to survive in that area without him. Seeking each other out for help every now and then is great, but avoid becoming an enabler to each other.

3. Determine that you will not reprimand each other. We aren’t children and shouldn’t be treated as such. If there is a situation where one of you is struggling with, take some time to discuss it when neither of your emotions is running high. Sometimes you might want to wait a day or two then approach each other gently and with support. This is always best to be done in private away from ear shot of the rest of the family.

4. Be ready to apologize. We’re all going to falter when it comes to respecting each other, but be quick to apologize…and mean it. Don’t try to cover something with a flippant apology when you’re not truly sorry. Sometimes it’s better to say “I’m not dealing well with this.” Then take a cooling off time before discussing a matter again. If you’ve blown it in front of the children, apologize to them.

5. Have a united front with children. Sure there might be times when one of your is unreasonable with the children and the children might go to the other parent for help. Sometimes we do have to be a mediator between the other spouse and the kids. Listen to the child explain their side of the story, then assure them that you will be speaking to that parent about the matter. When you get together with your spouse to discuss it, come to a final decision together and approach the child with your firm answer and be loving. If your children think you are on equal footing with them in the eyes of the other spouse, they will surely take advantage of that at some point. The ‘authority’ of the home needs to be equal and united.

breakfast table setting by sisterlisa, on Pix-O-Sphere

Being on equal footing is something that requires a lot of balance through grace and patience. It is in my opinion that any sort of hierarchy leadership in the home is simply an easy way out for a couple. I believe this would lead a family into a mindset of superiority over the wife and children and increase laziness and a demanding spirit in the husband. If a husband thinks he’s the final and ultimate authority then he has omitted the need for accountability in his own home and our human nature is more likely to fall into a trap that otherwise could have been avoided.

We all need to practice humility in the home in order to maintain a balance of mutual love and respect.

Day 1 Respecting and Honoring Your Deity

Day 2 Renewing Your Mind About You

Day 3 A Goddess Perspective of Your Home

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