Allow the Tortoise to Teach the Hare

As a homeschool parent, we occasionally run into snags in our faith and beliefs in educating our children. We’re often bombarded with accusations that we aren’t doing enough, aren’t intelligent enough to teach our kids, and we’re given reminders of how much kids in the public schools are doing. We’re faced with intimidation and pride, often scolded. Our opposition seeks to shame us and our children in their fast paced educational system by comparing credits, units, and hours of instruction. We lay awake at night wondering if we’re really doing the right things for our children and we anguish in prayer over whether our kids will turn out to be able to keep up with the world when they become adults.

This fast paced western world emphasizes competition with test scores and comparison charts, yet they forget what our ancestors taught. The very ancestors that built the foundation for education. Our modern concrete and plastic world has long forgotten the intricate fibers, textures, and vibrant colors that shaped the education of ancient worlds.

While we should favor moving forward in this struggling economic and educational society, we must not forget the depth of the truths that brought humanity to where we are today. There is a sacredness in the expansive cosmos of knowledge that is shamefully rejected and is facing an ongoing battle to survive.

This most holy treasure must be preserved and honored. We must not lay down our heritage in obeisance to the neglectful and imperious tormentors of this world. There is no possible way to measure the worth of such a key ingredient to educating the children of tomorrow. You can’t race to the finish line to achieve it, for within this nucleus of hidden treasure is the fact that there is no finish line. It is small yet profoundly large to the point of not being able to contain it all nor capture it for greedy gain.

In all the rush and pressure to obtain it, they miss it entirely.

Born in the late Eighteenth century, a poetic literary artist named C.S. Lewis said,

“the greatest service we can do to education today is to teach fewer subjects. No one has time to do more than a very few things well before he is twenty, and when we force a boy to be a mediocrity in a dozen subjects, we destroy his standards, perhaps for life.” in ‘Surprised by Joy’, a story of how his early childhood was shaped.

C. S Lewis was born to his Irish parents and lived in England during his adolescence. We are often enamored by the retelling of poetic tales from ancient men and women who lived in times of intense depth of soul. A time when stories were told to teach lessons of wisdom, love, and war. C.S. Lewis wrote fantasy tales artistically created in the far away land of his imagination through imagery of animal life. His stories not only entertain us, but when we read between the lines we learn valuable lessons that are eternally applicable to life no matter what century we live in.

We can travel further back in time to ancient Greece where we meet another fable visionary named, Aesop. His literal existence has long been suspected to be untrue, yet Aristotle and Herodotus wrote about him. Regardless of whether or not Aesop actually existed, his tales teach truth through short stories of human-like animal dilemmas. We don’t need to argue over whether or not a fox actually spoke English or if a tortoise really wants to learn to fly. The literal translations of the fables are not the point to begin with. Don’t miss the moral of the stories by trying to win an argument void of truth.

The ancient telling of fables were often retold verbally and later written down.

In a time of verbal story telling, the storytellers were able to show emotion, facial expression, and tone of voice that could lead their pupils to ponder deeper into the stories.   We are treacherous human beings  to omit this powerful expression of education. To further humiliate our most cherished ancestors, modern adults have closed the door to open discussion and collaborative efforts to improve our humanity. For ages, they have banished true free thought and expression in the communities out of fear of conflicting beliefs. Throughout history we read of world powers seeking to silence “rebellions”, when in truth those “rebels” were the ones fighting to preserve this sacred truth. The treason committed against our kind as been to overpower us with dominating control. People have gained control, but missed the beautiful art of communication and understanding. Oppressing the truth out of fear because the truth is so utterly transforming. I shake my head as I sit in awe of just how much more advanced our human race could be if the truth had not been encumbered for so long.

Aesop wrote a simple, yet profound, story that captures the very essence of this impacting axiom in his tale of the Tortoise and the Hare.

“A HARE one day ridiculed the short feet and slow pace of the Tortoise, who replied, laughing: “Though you be swift as the wind, I will beat you in a race.” The Hare, believing her assertion to be simply impossible, assented to the proposal; and they agreed that the Fox should choose the course and fix the goal. On the day appointed for the race the two started together. The Tortoise never for a moment stopped, but went on with a slow but steady pace straight to the end of the course. The Hare, lying down by the wayside, fell fast asleep. At last waking up, and moving as fast as he could, he saw the Tortoise had reached the goal, and was comfortably dozing after her fatigue. Slow but steady wins the race.” ~ Translated by George Fyler Townsend. Aesop’s Fables (p. 18). Amazon Digital Services, Inc..

As I was scrolling through my Facebook newsfeed this morning, I noticed this elementary aphorism;

“Childhood is not a race to see how quickly a child can read, write, and count. Childhood is a small window of time to learn and develop at the pace that is right for each individual child.”

In the upcoming school year 2014-2015, the States will be implementing a new method of education called, Common Core. On the surface, Common Core appears to be a goal oriented approach to assisting children in attaining a higher benchmark of education. However fancy the words may sound, I have come to see Common Core as the Hare in Aesop’s fable. The aspiration of Common Core is commendable, but the pathway to achievement is perfidious. It’s philosophy is inverted and against the natural grain of human learning. It’s akin to strapping Styrofoam fruit to a tree and calling it nutritious.  The hare is created to be swift to avoid becoming prey, but the tortoise is created to be patient and diligent.

Much like the story Jesus told of the wise man and foolish man, we learn the lesson of diligence and wisdom which can prepare us for a storm. The foolish man quickly built his house on sand, and the wise man patiently built his house on a rock. It’s like the story of the three little pigs. The pig who built quickly so he could enjoy life outside his home, later suffered ruin when the wolf came; as opposed to his brother who build his home out of bricks and survived. It’s devastating to think of how such small and seemingly insignificant stories can still teach today, but are often ignored by the masses.

Ancient years of hard working apprenticeships have been replaced by driven textbook memorization techniques intended to harvest statistics built on sand with sticks.

Children are born to reach the stars they are appointed to and we avert their energy and attention away from their individual greatness. Adults have been deceived into thinking their efforts will give the world a stellar academic scholar, but the result is scatterbrained victims who have missed their place in the universe. Oh we’ve muddled through, but is merely existing the desired achievement?

We force tortoises to trade in their feet and shells for fast and furry legs that don’t belong on reptiles. We’re not all born to be hares.

Many school systems (both public and private), have put children on a conveyor belt to be fed into a machine that alters their created purpose. They’ve missed the sacred for the Styrofoam.

jogger by lady_jess, on Pix-O-Sphere

photo credit Lady Jess, free source Pix-O-Sphere

Even many homeschool curriculum vendors have been deceived into following the same destructive patterns. They naively (or maybe deceptively) changed lingo by inserting religious vocab into “secular” textbooks and passed them off as “Christ honored” education materials. They are choking on false fruit decorated in religious glitter.

We must not war with one another in a mad dash race for domination. That sprint doesn’t teach us the value in the cross country longevity needed to have the character and self discipline to be whole individuals who can invest in future generations.

We should aim to move forward, but not when we sacrifice the sacred for the superficial.

Each child is unique and will have their own created purpose. Allow your imagination to flourish for a moment as you ponder the expansive greatness of your child’s future if he/she is raised and educated in a way that strengthens their potential. Daydream with me for a time as we envision the success your child will achieve in his/her arena of expertise if they are formed, shaped, and sharpened in that specific talent.

Have we lost the skillful art of apprenticeship?

We must consider the danger of removing a child’s inner adult and replacing it with a robot void of the truth of what the child is destined to become.

We can’t expect all children to grow up to be hares. The world still needs the diligent tortoises, the beautiful peacocks, the swift cheetahs, and poetic love we witness in pods of dolphins who travel the seas as families.

As parents, we must consider what is best for our children and help them to grow into their personal infinities. We must contend for their future and refuse to allow anyone, or any entity, to steal their future from them. We each have our own path to choose.

Humanity must be set free to become what their stars have waiting for them.

 

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Homeschool isn’t for everyone. Then again, neither is public school.

I grew up in the public school system in Southern California back in the latter 70′s, 80′s, and graduated in 1990. I came from a home of 2 working parents and was not raised in a religious household. I spent most of my time with kids my own age and just a few short hours with my family at home after school before bed time. I was alone until my parents got home from work and on the nights they worked late, I cooked dinner for the family. It wasn’t the “ideal” way to grow up, whatever “ideal” means. I know it’s popular for some adults to assume that having a stay at home parent who homeschools their kids is the best way to raise a family, but that’s not always the case.

school by sisterlisa, on Pix-O-Sphere

It’s also not always the choice a family can actually make. I know a single mom with two little girls who was abandoned by their father. She would have loved to have homeschooled her kids, but that wasn’t possible for her. I know a mom who would have loved to stay at home, but her husband liked to spend his money on himself and she had to go to work to help make ends meet. I know a dad who would have loved to have had his wife continue homeschooling their kids, but she left him for another man.

Things happen in life that catch you off guard. Things happen that you just don’t expect.

It’s common to see people argue about public education vs. private or homeschool. Often it’s people who have either never homeschooled, aren’t public school teachers, or don’t even have school aged children yet. I find it better to not judge a person’s situation until you’ve walked a few years in their shoes.

When I was going to public school I had my fair share of bullies to face, bomb threats at school, and raids that kept us locked in the classrooms until the cops could make sure it was safe for us to leave school. I’ve had distractions in classes, and a few bad teachers along the way. I had some good classes, excellent teachers, but none of that could keep me safe while I walked to the next class. In fact, one guy at school tried to rape me at a friend’s house one day. Thankfully, two of my friends stopped him. He had his last class across from my last class. It was 3 other students who walked me to my car every afternoon that last year of school. I never told a teacher, a counselor, or even my family what I faced every day at school.

I had some years when I was caught up with the wrong crowd, making bad choices, and barely graduated as it was. I thankfully was able to move out of state after graduation and get a fresh start.

Not everyone gets a second chance in life like I did.

This is Ativa. Please watch a few minutes to find out what obstacles Ativa faces and why graduation is such a difficult hurdle for her … then don’t be so quick to judge that public school is the best choice for all families.

This is Jose. Jose didn’t realize he was choosing the wrong friends. Somehow..all the way up til he was in high school..he didn’t learn how to choose the right friends. He faces his own set of obstacles in regards to graduating high school.

Rey might be the first one in his family to graduate high school. He lives on his own at the age of 17 because his mom had to go back to Mexico. He works to pay his rent so he can get through school. He grew up sleeping on the floor, because they didn’t have a bed or even a room for him. He goes to school in Los Angeles. And to think people criticize those of us who choose to homeschool.

This is Tatiana. She has been raised by her grandmother, because her mother was “too young to raise a child” and moved away..she doesn’t know where her mom even is. Her dad is in prison. She sheds a few tears as she talks about other kids who have supportive parents. The kind of support she wishes she had. She could be the 1st one in her family to graduate… but she’s failing. She doesn’t want to fail. Folks, standards and tests and teachers aren’t enough for kids to be able to graduate.

You see, there are programs that are practically begging for volunteers because the teachers can’t do it all on their own. More rules, higher standards, and test scores galore won’t make kids graduate. They need support. They need someone to believe in them. So go find a local school and walk through their teen lives with them, attend their graduation, and cheer them on. In the meantime, don’t criticize the parents who choose to homeschool their kids. Don’t criticize the kids who struggle through public school. Don’t bash teachers for not doing “well enough”. Try correcting papers instead. Try visiting a teen at home to make sure they’re safe. Try walking a kid home from school so they make it home alive.

graffiti Seattle by tinkerbell1972, on Pix-O-Sphere

I’m a public school graduate who chose to homeschool our 4 children for part of their years growing up. The first several years, we had them in private school. But I support whatever education is available to you, just whatever you do..be supportive of your kids. Be involved in their lives. Cheer them on!

And if you spend your time bashing a homeschooling family for the choice they make, try spending that time helping a kid like one in these videos instead. That’s where you can really make a difference.

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Affordable Homeschool Fun

We’ve had a very busy few weeks, but it’s all been good. The thing that’s super cool is that we’ve been able to do a lot of fun things at little, or no, cost at all! We were asked to visit a 5 star resort in Sedona, Arizona if we’d agree to sit through a presentation of their vacation package. I never knew you could have so much affordable fun. I can’t even begin to tell you how awesome it was to stay in a 5 star resort for free! I practically felt guilty as I soaked in the enormous bathtub with jets!

luxury bathtub

The view was stellar, especially during sunset when the red rock glowed. It was the perfect weekend, especially since it landed on our 21st anniversary.

Sedona, Arizona red rock

 

Then our daughter, Jess, and I drove 10 minutes to check out a botanical garden. We initially just visited to see if it would be a place where we’d want to bring the whole family and as it turns out the cost to get in was only $3 a person. Score! It is a beautiful little garden well worth the $3. If you’re ever in Orange County, Sherman’s Library and Garden is worth your time to visit. I shared more pics at the Pix-O-Sphere blog’s Travel-Sphere.
botanical garden

botanical garden

botanical garden

 

After we left, we drove through a local neighborhood and discovered the amazing view of Corona Del Mar. Oh be still my heart! What a lovely place to have a romantic lunch. We drove home and I packed a picnic lunch for my husband and I. I stole him from the office and took him back. We had our lunch while over looking the bay then hiked down the hill to see the tide pools. Field trip! I knew I just HAD to bring the kids back.
Corona Del Mar

So Thursday morning we got up early, packed a picnic lunch, then went to see the tide pools, sea anemone, and hike on the rocks. Homeschooling our kids gives us the advantage of enjoying these amazing vacation spots before the public school kids are released for the summer.

Corona Del Mar

Corona Del Mar

Corona Del Mar tide pools

We are so blessed to be able to live in this gorgeous southern California community and not have to spend a fortune in the process. You don’t have to be wealthy to be able to enjoy the world around us. You just gotta know how to look for the best deals in town.

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